December 17, 2025

The real conversation that changed how I see this season of my life

I hope you are hanging in there during this holiday season. It has been A TIME, and I am right here breathing with you. Deep breaths friends. We’ve got this.

I’m excited to share something really special with you today. I was recently a guest on The Balanced Blonde // Soul on Fire podcast and this conversation felt less like a podcast and more like sitting on the couch with an old dear friend (because Jordan is!) talking about what it really means to be a woman living and loving in this moment.

We went everywhere. The beautiful and the messy. The true middle of life. The becoming more you than you have ever been part.

🔥 What we talked about:

Healthy boundaries
Why boundaries are not walls. They are acts of self-love and clarity and respect. We talked about how to set them without spiraling into guilt or overthinking and how they are one of the most powerful ways to honor your intuition.

Triple Libra moments and identity shifts
How to stay connected to who you really are when life is loud and everyone needs something from you. The energy changes. The recalibrating. The returning to your true frequency again and again.

Being partnered with your twin flame/soulmate/THIS IS SO HARD energy
Real talk about what it is like when your partner is your mirror, your challenge, your soft landing, and your co-creator. Intimacy and growth and all the real life stuff in between.

Mid-forties life and relationships
The shifting priorities. Parenting. Health. Desire. Self care. Dreams. Why this stage can feel like one of the most powerful and slightly insane reinventions of your life.

Patterns pivots and healing
The past showing up in the present. What to do with the old wounds that resurface at the strangest times. How to honor all the versions of you that got you here while becoming the next one.

If you are in a season of redefining yourself or your relationships or your boundaries or if you are simply craving a conversation that feels grounding and real, I think you will love this one.

Watch the episode here (the most fun option!)
 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=0KKrAdxLLWM

🎧Or listen here
 https://podcasts.apple.com/me/podcast/459-girl-chat-on-how-to-have-boundaries-triple-libra/id1169052792?i=1000740592678

And make sure to follow @thebalancedblonde and @soulonfirepod on IG. I have known Jordan forever, and she holds nothing back.

Still looking for gifts? My Hot Mama Holiday Gift Guide is still the most amazing gift guide out there! Click here to shop my selects and make your holiday shopping season that much easier.

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